Perhaps the best example of free will ever given was when the Archangel Gabriel appeared before a very young Miriym bat Yehoyaqim of the village of Nasrat to ask her if she would consent to be the Mother of God.
Her response made clear she had a choice in the matter. But as the traditional learning point tells, just prior to agreeing, “all nature held its breath.”
After all, Mary could have said no.
That’s only one of the many reasons as to why so many over the past two millennia have held the Blessed Virgin Mary in such high regard. The purity of her character, the purity of her loyalty, the purity of the love for her Son have been the example of what real purity is to untold millions for centuries.
But in the immortal words of Taylor Swift, “And the haters gonna hate, hate, hate, hate, hate…” Thusly proving that sometimes even the Virgin Mary can’t catch a break.
Case in point: The recent Washington Post article entitled, “Our culture of purity celebrates the Virgin Mary. As a rape victim, that hurts me.”
In an especially hard-hitting but painfully honest critique by Thomas D. Williams, PH.D. of the Breitbart news portal;
This year the Left’s annual War on Christmas has taken a bizarre turn with a Washington Post op-ed claiming that the Virgin Mary’s purity is offensive to victims of rape.
In an article titled, “Our culture of purity celebrates the Virgin Mary. As a rape victim, that hurts me,” Ruth Everhart explains that especially in the Advent lead-up to Christmas, Mary becomes a problem for many Christians because of her pristine purity.
Mary “set an impossibly high bar,” Everhart writes. “Now the rest of us are stuck trying to be both a virgin and a mother at the same time.”
As a rape victim, this has been especially difficult for the author, she says, which led to her becoming a pastor, in order “to come to terms with Mary’s story.”
Everhart writes that she doesn’t blame her sense of ruin “entirely” on the Virgin Mary. In fact, it isn’t really Mary’s fault, she states; it’s the Church’s for manipulating Mary into a model of purity.
“Mary is not responsible for what we’ve done to her story,” she writes. “Church culture has overfocused on virginity and made it into an idol of sexual purity. When it comes to female experience, the church seems compelled to shrink and distort and manipulate.”
To some people, “vaginas are inherently dirty,” she states. “They can never be purified.”
“And isn’t that the definition of hopelessness? Does it bother you that half of the human population is condemned to hopelessness because their body parts can never be pure?” she asks rhetorically.
Never mind that you can attend a thousand Christian church services without ever hearing a sermon on purity. Never mind that virginity is rarely held up as a model in our sex-soaked western culture, even within our churches. Never mind that Christians have elaborated an entire “Theology of the Body” to help people appreciate the human body and sexuality as a beautiful gift of God.
For Everhart, it’s the Christians’ fault when people feel sexually dirty.
“Maybe the church could ask body-owners to weigh in about their experiences,” she writes, as if most Christian preachers were incorporeal beings. “Most people have thoughts and feelings about their sexual selves. Having a body is complicated. It involves trial and error,” she adds, as if this were somehow news to Christians.
Yet, teaching young people the value of purity or to appreciate abstinence before marriage is no solution, Everhart contends. Purity is no model for today’s generation.
“We want to pretend sexuality is something we can lock in a box and keep on a shelf. But a lockbox won’t work. Neither will a chastity belt or a purity ring. Certainly not the abstinence pledges they make young folks sign,” she writes.
And turning to the Virgin Mary, Everhart asks: “How do you feel about what the patriarchy has done with you?”
It’s a good thing Mary doesn’t answer. She might be tempted to note that she fared considerably better at the hands of the “patriarchy” than she has from her feminist sisters who twist her story into something political, petty, and ultimately uninspiring.
- Sensitive SJW nerds ruin a Christmas classic
- General Mattis, Trump’s Choice for Secretary of Defense Christmas Story
- Consumers are dreaming of a green Christmas
- The Trump Effect: Merry Christmas Makes a Comeback
And if you’re as concerned about Facebook censorship as we are, go here and order this new book: